Don’t stop chasing.
I think that one of the biggest reason why relationships do not work
out in the long run is because at one point, one side (or both) stops
trying. Before one claims another person as their significant other,
they would do anything to make that person happy. They would chase, they
would flirt, they would be charming. They would send daily morning and
goodnight texts every time you wake up or go to sleep. They would write
corny messages and pick up lines just to make sure that there is a smile
upon your face. But once they claim you as theirs, all of those things
eventually stop. The 5 page texts slowly turn into 1. The constant calls
turn into not calling at all. And the lovely endearments turn into
daily arguments. In order for a relationship to work, don’t ever stop
chasing. Just because the person you want is now consider “yours”, it
does not mean they deserve anything less than the time when you’re
trying to win them over. ♥
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