Have you ever missed a friend out of a sudden? What I meant wasn't those ifyouknowwhatimean feelings but just genuine missing someone out of pure friendship. Back in the good old days where people thoughts are much more simpler, gestures between friends were just based on feelings and not motives.
I bet you would definitely recall a moment when you quarreled with your best friend and wanted to cut all connections with him or her but the very next day, you guys were back as buddies again.
I mean friendship is one of the most important ties in your life, second to your family. If you look at your life in perspective, the first few people you interact with is your family and what comes after that?
You go to school and you make friends, different kinds of friends. It may come to a point that you would value your friends more then your family as the amount of time you spend with them in school or having fun is quite an amount i must say.
So before you ditched your friends and go on to pursue whatever you want to do, be it going after the girl of dreams or working like a ox, think again.
Because when people get treated like an option, they would make your life easier and fuckin leave you. Slowly but gradually and the next time you guys meet, it will be as strangers!
All these thoughts spurred me to write a letter to a friend below.
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